How to Find a Man

23 Oct

It seems like all the time I hear of women complaining about how it’s so hard to find decent men these days.

And you know what?

It’s because there aren’t many decent men anymore. I elaborated on this in the post Classy Not Trashy.

But today I’m going to sum it up and tell you the one rule you need to follow find your prince, and live happily ever after. By following this rule, I promise you that you will have more success with the right type of guys.

So you’re probably here because your dating life has been pretty lackluster lately.

You may have slept with a man too soon, only to find that he won’t text you or return your calls anymore.

You might be attracting scumbags, and you’re tired of it.

There are a thousand reasons you may be reading this, but all of them lead to one easy to follow rule:

If you want a prince, act like a princess.

Princes never went for the evil queens or the wicked witches.

Let me ask you a question:

Who ended up with the prince? Cinderella or her less than ladylike stepsisters?

Everyone knows that it was Cinderella.

Why did the prince choose her over the stepsisters?

I promise you it wasn’t because she was the hottest girl at the party. It was because Cinderella had some really admirable traits! This girl was humble, kind, and beautiful.

She didn’t go out every night looking for a good time.

She wasn’t hooking up with guys left and right. (Note: If you’re not looking for a serious relationship now, it’s fine to do these things, just be safe about it.)

I know that real life isn’t a fairytale, but I’m telling you straight from a man’s perspective; there is not a good man who exists in this world that wakes up in the morning hoping he won’t find his Cinderella.

Which brings me to my next point:

You can’t expect to find or attract a good man if you’re constantly settling for losers ladies.

Kissing a frog and turning him into a prince might sound like a great idea, but more often than not, when you kiss a frog you’re going to get warts.

I know that some guys are pretty good at hiding their true nature. He may be suave, debonair, and extremely gentleman-like, but eventually his true colors are going to show (you can read this post here if you need help identifying these men). If he displays behavior that makes you uncomfortable or does something such as tries to sleep with you way to soon, he’s most likely not the type of man that you want.

So how do you deal with these types? Easy.

You ditch them.

Don’t make excuses. If you are doing your best to attract decent men, and you end up with a guy that isn’t decent, you get rid of them and cut them out of your life.


Because you can’t polish a turd. So don’t try to.

So let’s sum this up neatly. As long as you follow this single rule below, I guarantee you won’t have a problem finding the decent men that are left in this world.

If you want the man of your dreams, be the woman of his dreams.

Live by that advice, and you’re well on your way to your prince.

I want to hear from you ladies!




3 Responses to “How to Find a Man”

  1. steph October 23, 2012 at 7:17 pm #

    HAHAHA I love it!!!!! holy crap, its funny you just wrote this at a time that I SOOOO needed it. “you can’t polish a turd”. LOVE IT!! Great advice and I stand by it 100%.

    • Chris October 24, 2012 at 5:05 pm #

      Haha, glad I could help!

  2. Carey May 2, 2013 at 1:32 pm # being a princess for long. It’s a god damn tough job…. U should write an article how to be a happy princess. ….

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